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Fast track your healing after betrayal

Let us help you manage the crisis in your life. We’ll provide you with the best faith-based, clinically proven advice on how to reclaim your life after betrayal.

Just a few minutes a day will get you inspired and educated to deal with issues like discovery, disclosure, betrayal trauma, setting boundaries, and restoring trust.

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How can anyone afford help today?

Did you know experts estimate it takes from 2 to 5 years to build a solid foundation for partner recovery? We’re talking hundreds of hours and tens of thousands of dollars in counseling. No wonder why so many partners of sexual strugglers get left behind.

Now there’s an affordable new approach to healing that begins with learning from the top experts in betrayal trauma and partner support. They’ll also teach you what you need to know about your partner’s sex addiction. They know because they’ve been there, too.

Typical Therapy Sessions

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  • $100-$200 per hour
  • $400-$800 per month
  • $4,800-$9,600 per year

Typical Intensives

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  • $500 – $2,000 per day
  • Limited Availability

“I’ve learned more from the Daily Disciplines than I did in a year of therapy at a fraction of the cost.”

From Hopeless to Hopeful…

It’s not just that help is costly, but it’s hard to find the right kind of help. The kind that actually helps you instead of misguides you, harms you, degrades you, invalidates you, or dismisses you.

Spending 2-5 years in therapy sessions, attending intensives, and reading countless books to find good advice sounds overwhelming, right? It is, I get it. But what if you had 24/7 access to the best advice and curated content by watching bite-sized video interviews with the top experts in the field?

What if instead of wasting time trying to find someone who gets you and understands betrayal trauma and sexual addiction, we could bring those people to you to learn from every day, or whenever you’re ready to listen and learn? Would that make this hard journey seem a little less daunting? You bet it would.

The fact is, most women turn to their church pastor or staff for help first, and often they are given misinformed advice like “quickly forgive and forget”. And while these leaders typically mean well, the truth is most of them are untrained and uneducated in this difficult and complex area of care ministry.

But that won’t stop some from doling out bad advice just the same. And in the end, YOU are the one who pays dearly. Through lost time, damaged relationships, broken marriages, and a lost sense of self. That’s why we created our Daily Disciplines™ for Partner Support. It’s a safe new place to start or continue your journey.

I’ve seen the fog lifted from the eyes of countless women. I’ve heard them share their truth despite being gaslit into believing they are crazy.

What if that could be you? From hopeless to hopeful to eventually living a heroic life. By now, the betrayal has probably caused a seismic shift in your core beliefs.

The betrayal has shredded your heart.

But did you know that this betrayal is also causing small shifts in your brain as well?

Maybe you don’t feel like yourself…

Maybe you can’t think clearly…

Maybe the betrayal has awakened a rage you never knew existed…

 

You don’t feel like yourself because your brain is working overtime to protect you from more betrayal.

If you can’t concentrate, eat, sleep, remember, or even read this page without difficulty, then you’re likely suffering from betrayal trauma.

We know this, but most care providers aren’t betrayal trauma-informed, much less trained to help. However, nearly all of our experts are. And they’re just waiting to teach you what you need to know about it.

You’ll learn about betrayal trauma and much, much more in our Daily Disciplines™ for Partner Support.

Old solutions are the problem.

A few years ago, we suddenly realized that the solution we and everyone else were sharing with others was the problem. Let me explain.

Going to see a counselor, paying for polygraphs, and attending week-long intensives was problematic. They were often beyond the average person’s budget or inconvenient. Many women found it impossible to leave their job or parental responsibilities for a weekend or a week to attend an expensive intensive.

And since COVID, finding someone who is not just properly trained and knowledgable about mental health issues like betrayal trauma and sexual addiction, but who is also available, has become the latest hurdle.

There are less than 1,000 betrayal trauma-trained therapists trying to help over 15 million partners of sex addicts in the U.S. That’s a ratio of 1 specialist for every 15,000 partners.

Here are just a few reasons why taking a traditional approach to recovery & healing is problematic:

  • Therapy costs $5,000-$10,000+ a year and is increasing
  • Very few betrayal trauma informed or trained specialists
  • Very few sexual addiction informed or trained specialists
  • Church care ministers not typically trauma informed or trained
  • Intensives alone aren’t enough and can cost thousands of dollars
  • Only 3-5% success rate for traditional approaches to recovery

Get Expert Help You Deserve.

In our Daily Disciplines™ for Partner Support, you’ll have a seat at the table with dozens of the leading experts in faith-based betrayal trauma and sexual addiction recovery.

Listen in as they share with you their hard-earned wisdom, learned experiences, and best advice covering 8 vital topics:

  • Learn about betrayal trauma and how it affects you
  • Learn how to manage your feelings and emotions
  • Learn best practices from discovery to disclosure
  • Learn how to set and keep safe and healthy boundaries
  • Learn how to uncover and process past trauma
  • Learn how to restore trust and when to forgive
  • Learn how to practice self-care and live empowered
  • Learn how to restore your spirituality and faith in God
Meet Michael and Christine 

We’re Glad You’re Here

Hi! We’re Michael and Christine Leahy, and together we lead BraveHearts.

BraveHearts began 20 years ago as a result of one man’s journey from recovery to redemption from sexual addiction. Since then, we’ve inspired and equipped thousands of courageous men and women – aka BraveHearts – to undertake their own Hero’s Journey by pursuing freedom from addiction and betrayal trauma so they can live a redemptive life.

Along this epic journey, we’ve exchanged thoughts and ideas with hundreds of ministry leaders, subject matter experts, mentors, and mentees. About 6 years ago, we started inviting these experts to share their hard-earned wisdom and knowledge with our followers in what has become our much anticipated annual virtual summits.

At some point in these conversations, I asked them a question I have also asked my most successful mentees – “What’s the #1 thing you did to get sober and stay healthy?”

Whenever I do that, the answer is almost always the same:

“I spend some time every day connecting with God and working on my recovery.”

Not a lot of time, mind you. But just enough to keep it all “front of mind.” That’s it! It’s that simple! Yet for some reason, putting these daily disciplines into practice was a struggle for many mentees.

It was this dilemma that inspired us to create Daily Disciplines™ for Partner Support and Daily Disciplines™ for Sexual Integrity. These bite-sized video clips and downloadable lessons take less than an hour to complete and are packed with the wisdom you need to start and sustain your recovery journey.

We’ve even created some Daily Discipline Discussion Groups (aka D3 Groups) for those who want to dive deeper in a Zoom discussion group format. These men’s and women’s groups will keep you connected with others for support and accountability.

All this PLUS a bunch of exciting bonuses you’ll learn more about further down this page for just about 60 cents a day.

We even created a Free 7-Day Trial version so you can take ’em for a test drive and decide for yourself.

So what are you waiting for? Let’s do this! Your freedom awaits.

In it with you,

Not a lot of time, mind you. But just enough to keep it all “front of mind.” That’s it! It’s that simple! Yet for some reason, putting these daily disciplines into practice was a struggle for many mentees.

It was this dilemma that inspired us to create Daily Disciplines™ for Partner Support and Daily Disciplines™ for Sexual Integrity. These bite-sized video clips and downloadable lessons take less than an hour to complete and are packed with the wisdom you need to start and sustain your recovery journey.

We’ve even created some Daily Discipline Discussion Groups (aka D3 Groups) for those who want to dive deeper into a Zoom discussion group format. These men’s and women’s groups will keep you connected with others for support and accountability.

All this PLUS a bunch of exciting bonuses you’ll learn more about further down this page for just about 60 cents a day.

We even created a Free 7-Day Trial version so you can take ’em for a test drive and decide for yourself.

So what are you waiting for? Let’s do this! Your freedom awaits.

In it with you,

The character qualities taught there are helping me to be more authentic, vulnerable, and honest in my relationships with the Lord, my husband, and with others.

M.V.Betrayed partner

I see Daily Disciplines™ as a lifeline. We were going down fast prior to subscribing, but not anymore. Now we're both heading in the right direction and healing together.

J.L.Betrayed partner

By using the Daily Disciplines™, I have grown immensely in my spiritual growth. I have more compassion towards the struggler and myself.

S.T.Betrayed partner

The biggest benefit for me in using Daily Disciplines™ has been finding my voice and knowing my truth. God has given me extra strength I did not know existed.

B.L.Betrayed partner

In many ways I feel like a new person! I no longer feel like I'm crazy. I've also listened to some of the Daily Disciplinces™ for Sexual Integrity and I feel like there is hope for our marriage. I appreciate the work your organization is doing and the hope you give marriages.

L.F.Betrayed partner

Daily Disciplines™ for Partner Support

Daily Disciplines™ for Partner Support are the definitive online training tool to support your Hero's journey from discovery to recovery to living a redemptive life.

Recovery to Redemption Roadmap

Our R2R Roadmap will show you the way forward. We've created 4 stages - Hopeful, Gutsy, Braveful, and Heroic - to help you see where you are today, where you're headed, and what you need to do next.

Proven Faith-Based Solutions

If a Christ-centered approach to healing is important to you, then you're in the right place. We'll educate you on best practices in both the spiritual and scientific realms of mental health.

Experts Who've Been There

Not only will you be learning from some of the world's top experts in faith-based recovery and healing, but nearly all of our experts speak from their own personal experience with betrayal and trauma, too.

Daily Disciplines™ Framework

Example: Carol Juergenson Sheets - Brain Science & Trauma

Meet the Expert

The first step on any journey is to find an experienced guide who can show you the way. We have dozens of trained experts who will mentor you with their deep expertise, personal experience, and hard-earned wisdom. No more bad, uninformed advice.

  • Psychotherapist & Coach
  • Trainer, APSATS Partner Sensitive Approach
  • Author & Podcaster

Watch the Interview

Ever wonder what it would be like to be a fly on the wall, listening in as two experts discuss topics that are vitally important to you? That’s what it’s like as we invite you to watch or listen in on these casual, candid topical conversations.

  • Access Engaging Video Format
  • Access Downloadable Audio Format
  • Quick & Convenient (Available App)
  • Auto Resume Feature

Watch the Interview

Ever wonder what it would be like to be a fly on the wall, listening in as two experts discuss topics that are vitally important to you? That’s what it’s like as we invite you to watch or listen in on these casual, candid topical conversations.

  • Access Engaging Video Format
  • Access Downloadable Audio Format
  • Quick & Convenient (Available App)
  • Auto Resume Feature

Read the Summary

Are you more of a visual learner? If so, you’ll love our 1-page summaries. It’s an even quicker way to get the vital information you need. Combined with the video, it’ll lock in the learning.

  • Features 1-Page Summary
  • Main Take-Aways Presented
  • Key Ideas, Terms Defined
  • Memorable Quote Highlighted

Answer the Questions

Thought-provoking questions help you digest the information you’ve just taken in and consider how it might apply to you. Going through these with your spouse? We’ve even added two questions for him to think about.

  • 2 Reflective Questions for You to Ponder
  • 2 More Questions for Your Partner to Consider
  • Extra Blank Pages for Note-taking

Answer the Questions

Thought-provoking questions help you digest the information you’ve just taken in and consider how it might apply to you. Going through these with your spouse? We’ve even added two questions for him to think about.

  • 2 Reflective Questions for You to Ponder
  • 2 More Questions for Your Partner to Consider
  • Extra Blank Pages for Note-taking

Pray the Prayer

Finally, we’ll guide you into a closing time of prayer with a verse of scripture God gave us, words of encouragement He inspired us to share with you, and our suggestion of what you might want to pray about. The rest is between you and God.

  • Scripture Verse to Meditate On
  • Our Words of Encouragement to You
  • Suggested Focus For Your Prayer
Check out the additional bonuses!

We’re giving away amazing bonuses!

When you sign up for the Daily Disciplines™ for Partner Support, we’ll give you free access to 4 must watch webinars, access to as many Women’s D3 Groups as you need, PLUS a free downloadable meditative coloring book, PLUS access to the Braveful Society online community group. That’s over $1,000 in bonus value combined!

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Bonus No. 1

Bonus Training

As a new subscriber to the Daily Disciplines™ for Partner Support, we decided to add some bonus training videos to help you deepen your understanding of a few key topics we often get asked about:

  1. The 10 Biggest Myths About Getting Help
  2. 6 Important Facts About Betrayal Trauma & Treatment
  3. The Most Common Types of Sex Addicts
  4. How to Improve Your Emotional IQ

In each of these 90-minute bonus training videos, Michael distills down 20 years of personal and ministry experience and wisdom gleaned from other subject matter experts to give you the essential information you need to know. 

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Bonus No. 2

Women’s D3 Groups

It’s a proven fact that connecting regularly in a facilitator-led group of like-minded, like-hearted women is not only essential but can also be an accelerator in your recovery.

Our Women’s D3 Groups stand ready to be that safe place where you can let your hair down and just be yourself as we all take a deeper dive together into the Daily Disciplines™.

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Bonus No. 2

Women’s D3 Groups

It’s a proven fact that connecting regularly in a facilitator-led group of like-minded, like-hearted women is not only essential but can also be an accelerator in your recovery.

Our Women’s D3 Groups stand ready to be that safe place where you can let your hair down and just be yourself as we all take a deeper dive together into the Daily Disciplines™.

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Bonus No. 3

Meditative Coloring Book

Who says recovery and healing can’t be fun!?! Why not start by getting your creative on and throwing down some color on some truly amazing illustrations.

Created specifically for BraveHearts women, explore the endless possibilities and God-given talents we all possess as you express yourself inside AND outside the lines. 

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Bonus No. 4

The Braveful Society

The Braveful Society is our online community for women. Join private groups, engage in private discussions with other women, and enjoy the sense you’re not alone.

This unique online community is a safe place confined within an independent network that doesn’t rely on Facebook or Instagram accounts to sign in. Additionally, our network is ad-free and can be accessed through an Apple or Android app.

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Bonus No. 4

The Braveful Society

The Braveful Society is our private online community for women. Join a group, engage in deeper discussions with other women, and feel secure in the knowledge that you’re not alone.

Our unique community is hosted on a private social network that’s much safer and less invasive than Facebook or Instagram. It’s ad-free and can be easily accessed on mobile via an Apple or Android app.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What exactly are the Daily Disciplines™?

The Daily Disciplines™ are at the heart and soul of BraveHearts’ mission. We’re offering you a seat at the table where faith-based subject-matter experts gather to share their best advice and hard-earned wisdom derived from decades of personal recovery and professional caregiving experience. These short video-based teachings will provide you with the knowledge, support, and encouragement you need to rebuild your life after intimate betrayal.

Collectively, each Daily Disciplines™ course represents hundreds of years of personal recovery experience and subject-matter expertise shared by our amazing faculty of experts and mentors. We’ve condensed their best advice and wisdom down to a combined 64 weeks of learning material that’s easy to access and designed to support a lifestyle of lifelong learning one day at a time, all for less than $1 a day!

How are they organized and what will I learn?

Inside you’ll find 125+ short video-based teachings led by faith-based experts in betrayal trauma and sexual addiction. To make them easy to use, we’ve divided and organized the Daily Disciplines™ into four “Cycles” of week-long topical units of studies. Complete a full Cycle and you’ve likely spent 8 weeks learning about these 8 topics in the order they appear below:

  1. Understanding Betrayal Trauma
  2. Managing Your Feelings & Emotions
  3. Discovery & Disclosure
  4. Setting Healthy Boundaries
  5. Healing Past Trauma
  6. Restoring Trust & Forgiveness
  7. Self-Care & Empowerment
  8. Restoration & Spirituality

How do you recommend I use them?

We believe completing one lesson a day will provide you with the information, validation, and encouragement you need for the long journey ahead. Each video is accompanied by a summary worksheet, questions, and a scripture verse for reflection and prayer. We recommend taking your time to consider the questions each day so that you can begin to heal.

If it takes you more (or less) than a week to go through each topical unit of study, no problem. You get to proceed at your own pace. Follow the proven, suggested progression that we recommend or jump around between topics in whatever order you like.

What should I do once I've gone through them all?

Most of our students go through the Daily Disciplines™ more than once. The reason is simple – the more time you invest in your recovery and healing, the more you change. And the more you change, the more it changes the way you see things.

So when you go through the learning material the second and third time around, you’ve grown and your perspective has changed. The result is you’ll notice you’re seeing things differently and gaining wisdom and insights that you just didn’t pick up on the first or second time around.

We’ve designed our Daily Disciplines™ with this very fact in mind. Remember, this is a lifelong journey you’ve undertaken, so you should be adopting the mindset of becoming a lifelong learner so you continue to heal and grow.

Do you offer a free trial?

Yes! You can sign up for a free 7-day trial (no credit card required) to watch up to 2 weeks’ worth of Daily Disciplines™ for Partner Support content!

Click here to sign up for our free 7-day trial.

What's included when I sign up for the full subscription?

When you sign up for Daily Disciplines™ for Partner Support you’ll receive:

  1. 125+ educational training videos and downloadable audio files
  2. 125+ downloadable worksheets including daily summaries, questions to answer, and scripture/prayers for reflection.
  3. Mobile app access so you can watch your Daily Disciplines™ wherever you go.

Plus These Bonuses!

 

âś… The Bonus Training Library

As a new subscriber to the Daily Disciplines™ for Partner Support, we decided to add some bonus training videos to help you deepen your understanding of a few key topics we often get asked about:

  1. The 10 Biggest Myths About Getting Help
  2. 6 Important Facts About Betrayal Trauma & Treatment
  3. The Most Common Types of Sex Addicts
  4. How to Improve Your Emotional IQ

In each of these 90-minute bonus training videos, Michael distills down 20 years of personal and ministry experience, and wisdom gleaned from other subject matter experts to give you the essential information you need to know.

âś… Braveful Coloring Book

This downloadable adult coloring book was designed by a world-renowned illustrator especially for women who’ve suffered through betrayal. Download, print, and color these beautiful pages to inspire and remind you of your strength and beauty.

âś… Women’s D3 Group

We believe there are 3 factors that make the most impact in healing from intimate betrayal: 1) practicing Daily Disciplines™ to gain wisdom about the issues you’re facing, 2) having a trusted guide like a mentor or counselor, and 3) having a safe group and/or community to connect with.

When you sign up for the Daily Disciplines™ for Partner Support you’ll get access to our weekly Zoom-based Women’s Daily Disciplines™ Discussion group, or D3 Group for short.

âś… The Braveful Society

You’ll also get 24/7 access to The Braveful Society, our online community of like-minded, like-hearted women who are all on the same journey you’re on. Together with your D3 Group, never again will you have to face these battles alone.

What if I want to cancel?

No problem! When you subscribe, you can cancel at any time for any reason. Updating your billing information or canceling your Daily Disciplines™ subscription is easy to do.

  1. After logging into your account, click on the member avatar in the top right corner of the page.
  2. Then, select Settings from the dropdown.
  3. Click Billing Info in the top right corner of the page.
  4. Scroll down to Active Subscriptions.
  5. Click the 3 dots and select Cancel this Subscription.
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